Everyone has weaknesses, but some have a name for it, and ways to take care of it. Disabled is not a negative label, but simply a comment about someone to make others aware of their needs. Adults have ways in most cases to deal with those people, who are not enlightened enough to understand that we are all able and all disabled in different ways at the same time. Children are a different story. Children are at the mercy of whoever is in charge of them, and of society’s attitude. Like anything else there are ways to protect a person’s self-esteem from those who wish to make someone else feel less.
- Surround yourself with people who love and like you just the way you are. Believe it or not, there are gifts to not being the norm. A disability makes you look at the alternatives and decide what is important and what is not. Many people with disabilities have productive, creative lives.
- Find a support group of people who have similar issues. Talking with others who have experienced what you have let’s you know your feelings are normal. There will be someone in the group you will admire despite the disability. You learn it is not the number one item that defines you. Find a group by using a service such as canada 411.
- Learn to be assertive with those that insist on making you feel less. It empowers you to tell your story and your definition of yourself whether they listen or not. It tells all listeners what you stand for and who you are.
- Help someone who has more issues or difficulties than you do. It makes you look at what you can do, and to let go of the rest.
How will you help someone’s confidence?








