Some people feel uneasy or uncomfortable around disabled people. Mostly, they are afraid to disrespect the person by saying the wrong thing or acting the wrong way, and not because of their disability. This can ultimately cause a person to act unconventionally around a person with a disability. Here are some ways to show a disabled person respect.
Speak Directly to the Disabled Person
It is disrespectful to avoid speaking to a disabled person, perhaps instead speaking to everyone else that is accompanying the person. Instead, speak to the disabled person and make direct eye contact. Avoid discussing the person’s disability; there are lots of other things to talk about! Speak to disabled adults just as you would any other adult.
Be Patient
If the disabled person has a speech problem, be patient and listen carefully, giving the person your undivided attention. If you don’t understand what is being said, simply ask! Do not pretend to know what was said as it could bite you back. Don’t be afraid to ask the person to offer some paper and a pen for them to write down what they are trying to say. When done in a polite manner, there will be no uncomfortable feelings.
Avoid Handicap Parking Spots
Don’t ever park in a handicapped parking spot, even if you will only be gone for a moment. It only takes a moment for a disabled person to arrive and find no place to park. For that matter, you should always leave handicapped restroom facilities and handicapped seating on transportation vacant so a handicapped person will not have trouble accessing a seat.
Never Assume
Never assume anything about a disabled person’s strengths or limitations. Someone in a wheelchair is not always paralyzed. Someone that has a speech impairment or a body impediment is not always mentally impaired. If you are in doubt, simply ask the person in a gentle and caring way.



